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		<title>UK Soap to get Gay Wedding!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jan 2011 12:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Shaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Top UK soap,  Coronation Street is to hold its first gay ‘wedding’ according to media reports circulating around the UK. Some say, midwife Marcus Dent returns to the show and rekindles his relationship with the popular factory worker and barman Sean,  played superbly by the lovely Antony Cotton.   According to various reports, the couple tie [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Top UK soap,  Coronation Street is to hold its first gay ‘wedding’ according to media reports circulating around the UK. <span id="more-15444"></span></p>
<blockquote><p>Some say, midwife Marcus Dent returns to the show and rekindles his relationship with the popular factory worker and barman Sean,  played superbly by the lovely Antony Cotton.   According to various reports, the couple tie knot in a civil partnership.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>The Sun newspaper, reported  that the soap opera’s openly gay producer Phil Collinson wants to give Antony Cotton’s character one of the biggest roles in 2011 story lines.    Therefore it seems perfect timing to bring back the gay love interest for Sean.   The show also has a lesbian couple,   Sophie Webster  played  by Brooke Vincent and Sian Powers whose played by Sacha Parkinson.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>According to the paper,  an insider told them   “Bringing back Charlie is seen as a big platform for him and in particular Antony who is well liked and admired by the boss. When Marcus turns up in Weatherfield in the spring he is desperate to rekindle his romance.     But having hurt him once, Sean is apprehensive until Marcus offers him commitment, with the future storyline leading to Corrie’s first same sex marriage.”</p>
<p>The soap, celebrated its 50th anniversary last year and a few of the stars led the gay Pride parade in Manchester in August.  However,   Antony Cotton pointed out that whilst Marcus does return to the show,  nothing at all has been fully and finally decided about the future of the two characters.</p>
<p>However,  it’s still a massive step forward for the show and the in screen visibility of gay people.</p>
<p>“This is great news”  said avid fan, Andrew from Horsham,  adding “It’s just what the street and British TV needs!”</p>
<p>“I fully support the inclusion of a gay ‘wedding’ and thing it will not only be good for the programme,  but also for the nation as a whole,  especially in this new year when the campaign for gay marriage is stepped up”  Gay supporter Graham told me yesterday.</p></blockquote>
<p>Jason Shaw</p>
<p>UK Correspondent</p>
<p>Jason’s blog is <a href="http://www.seafrontdiary.com/">www.seafrontdiary.com</a></p>
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		<title>Homotopia Not Homophobia!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 16:03:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Shaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week see&#8217;s the start of the 7th Homotopia festival  in the UK&#8217;s top northern city of Liverpool. This  month long festival is designed to  showcases the very  best in Lesbian, Gay Bi and Treans art and culture, which includes  dance, film, cabaret, writing,  poetry,  literature,   and a few exhibitions. This year for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week see&#8217;s the start of the 7th Homotopia festival  in the UK&#8217;s top northern city of Liverpool.</p>
<p>This  month long festival is designed to  showcases the very  best in Lesbian, Gay Bi and Treans art and culture, which includes  dance, film, cabaret, writing,  poetry,  literature,   and a few exhibitions.</p>
<p>This year for the very first time there is a youth strand in the festival,   called Right To Love,  which promises to offer an interesting insight to the mind of the young.</p>
<p>Other highlights include a reading by leading lesbian author Stella Duffy, the comedy and music night Lavender Girls and the play Mother/Son by Jeffrey Solomon.</p>
<p>The pull of this event is widening,  with a an exhibition in Turku, Finland, while the Foreign and Commonwealth Office and British Embassy in Ankara are funding research into the possibility of holding a Homotopia festival in Turkey.</p>
<p>Festival director Gary Everett said: “Homotopia offers a veritable smorgasbord of entertainment for everyone of all ages. From the hilarious, outrageous and subversive to the thought-provoking and challenging.  International artists from Italy, Mexico and the US rub shoulders with writers and performers from Wales, Scotland and Liverpool. We are now the only LGBT cultural festival in the north of England – come and find out why.”</p>
<p>Jason Shaw</p>
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		<title>A Brit Abroad&#8217;s View</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Oct 2010 14:34:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Shaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The whole of America is in the run up to the mid-term elections, which are happening next month and it’s pretty much dominating the TV, so much so it’s damn near driving me insane! Headline news, the lead or a major story on news bullets is, I guess only to be expected, but in every [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The whole of America is in the run up to the mid-term elections,  which are   happening next month and it’s pretty much dominating the TV,  so much so it’s damn near driving me insane!<span id="more-14407"></span></p>
<p>Headline  news,  the lead or a major story  on news bullets  is, I  guess  only to be expected,  but in every single commercial break?  No, I  kid you not,    it’s not like back home in England,  nope over here on  the local channels,   every single ad break  has some advertisement or  other for one of the various elections going on at this moment in time.   For an outsider  it’s all a bit  bewildering.  No,   really  I mean it,  it’s a bit of a muddle,    there’s  an election for state Governor,   there’s an election for senate seat, there’s an election for something  else too,  which I haven’t  quite got the hang of yet,   which means  every commercial break,  of which there are plenty &#8211; think  three breaks  for every one on UK TV,   features one,  two and sometimes three  ads  from the various politico’s trying to win office, election, public  attention and popularity!</p>
<p>One of the most striking things to note about 98% of  all these  commercials is they are negative!   For example, if I  took note and  believed some of the ads currently running,   I’ll know  who  can’t be  trusted as governor,  I’ll know who  tried to ram a delivery truck off  the road,  who has a trouble personal financial history,  whose mom   worked in his little donut shop,  whose company  was guilty  of fraud,    who  refused to  answer questions in a court hearing over 70 times so  he didn’t incriminate himself.  I’ll know one of the candidates took  home $8 million dollars whilst  her bank  was defrauding customers,  and  all manor of other unsavoury pieces of information.  Some of which,  if  I read the small print that rapidly flashed over the bottom of the  screen,  dates back ten years!  But,  from these ads,  I’ll  know  which  contender has the support of the fire service,  or  the  police forces  of the state,  who  was in the army,  who  claims to have gone to  Vietnam,   I’d know who  thinks Sarah Palin is the greatest thing since  the invention of the wheel.  But,  you know,  I’d know  little other  than that,  I’d not get to hear about the policy of this candidate over  that,  just the knowledge that  they approved that message!    Actual  politics  seems to be left behind on the back seat of this particular   car,   these commercials tell me zilch, nothing,  zero about  the  policies,  the beliefs,  the ideals,  the dreams,   the hopes,  the  allegiances  of each candidate,  nope  all the commercials,  or rather  to be fair, most of them (about 96%)  are just pure negative  campaigning,  smears,  slurs and lies,  all to make the opponents look  bad.    It’s  less about policies and more about whose got the most  dollars  to  run the most ad’s to most damage the reputation of the  opposition!     I  am so  glad I don’t have to cast my vote here,  I’d  be so mucking fuddled,  policy  talk  seems so very thin on the ground I  wouldn’t have a witches tit who to  cast my vote for.</p>
<p>Yes I suppose I could watch one of the TV news channels,   although   I’m wise enough now, to know that  anything I see on the FOX network is  so supremely  white republican bias it’s positively scary to watch.   It’s a wonder  how  it can be allowed to broadcast as an independent   news medium in the first place,  but then again,  it’s part of the the  Rupert  Murdoch empire,  need I say  more?</p>
<p>But, can the other channels  be trusted either?   OK, so   they may  be far less obvious,  far less aggressive and far less likely  to adopt  illegal methods and practices than FOX but are they  unbiased and  neutral?</p>
<p>Another curious thing,   as foreigner  you’d kind of expect me to  be  barred from funding a political party or a certain US politician,   or   if I had a company,  that it being a non USA based firm,  that it  wouldn’t be allowed to donate funds to a political organisation, party  or candidate  wouldn’t you?  But  you’d be wrong,   it  seems that   anyone can donate funds,  be they  a US resident,  or a jolly   foreigner,   they can be individuals or companies and what is more,   it  can all be anonymous!  Oh  yep,    it can all be kept quiet,  hush  hush,  under the table,  top secret, under the counter,  beyond all  eyes.   Yes,  all donations can be kept secret,  private and  undisclosed,  from individuals and companies alike,     so much so  that  it entirely possible,  a side line company front  of  some terrorist   splinter group could very well and this very moment  be funding one,   two or more politicians seeking election to the US senate!   Which,  if  you are American,  isn’t that just a little tiny bit of a worry?</p>
<p>Jason Shaw,  is the Brit abroad!   Yes you&#8217;re odd little  British correspondent  lends his  view of America from sunny South  Florida,   he approved this message,  but the views expressed are all  his own!   His daily blog  is <a title="jase" href="http://seafrontdiary.com/" target="_blank">The Seafront Diary</a></p>
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		<title>Flirty Flirty &#8211; Forty Forty</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 14:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Shaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Flirty, flirty there&#8217;s life after forty! More true life confessions from BestGayBlogs.com and Seafront Diaries blogger Jason Shaw. I can clearly remember standing with an old boss at a radio station in Crawley when one of my co-workers piped up with “Jason,   you’re a terrible flirt!” Quick as a flash, my boss offered, “No, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Flirty, flirty there&#8217;s life after forty! More true life confessions from BestGayBlogs.com and <a title="jase blogs" href="http://seafrontdiary.com/" target="_blank">Seafront Diaries</a> blogger Jason Shaw.<span id="more-13348"></span></div>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I can clearly remember standing with an old boss at a radio station in Crawley when one of my co-workers piped up with “Jason,   you’re a terrible flirt!” Quick as a flash, my boss offered, “No, actually he’s very good at it!”</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I was a little gob smacked, but it was then and still is now, to  me at least, a big compliment. And, it’s true. I am a flirt, I know I am.  In fact, I’m proud to be a flirt.   You see, I like to flirt and without wishing to sound big headed, I think I am probably quite good at it! You see, flirting, is, well it’s&#8230;enjoyable, good healthy innocent fun!  Honestly, it is! It&#8217;s great entertainment and I can flirt with the best of them. I guess I find it easy to flirt with most people. Of course you have to choose the right kind of person to flirt with, otherwise it’s a bit one sides, gets boring real fast and is like picking ya nose with mittens on! </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">As I say, I enjoy a good flirting session. It’s a blast, and it’s been my experience that the best people to flirt with are straight boys!  Yes,  I know you might find that strange to believe from an old poof like me, but, it’s true.  Straight boys make good flirting partners. Obviously there has to be a little ground work laid first of all, I mean, and old poof like me can’t just go up to random straight boys and flirt.  That’s just asking for trouble, an angry glare, a punch on the arm, a slap round the face, punch on the nose, or a blow job in the far cubicle of the gents &#8211; depending how late in the evening it is! </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">No, seriously, the straight guys I flirt with know that I’m gay and that I know that they know that I know that they prefer front bottoms and chest airbags &#8211; hopefully of the non-exploding kind.  Usually they are friends of friends, or the current squeeze of female friends and thus knowledge is key and we all know where we stand.  Flirting then is fine, fun and fulfilling. </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fbh-eMUyKZc/TFcWiwnaotI/AAAAAAAADQ8/NxwNJTIfNvA/s1600/window+boy.jpg"><img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fbh-eMUyKZc/TFcWiwnaotI/AAAAAAAADQ8/NxwNJTIfNvA/s320/window+boy.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="213" height="320" /></a><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"> </span></div>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">The best thing about flirting with straight boys, is that apart from passing time,  being a right good giggle,  it doesn’t lead anywhere.  For example, with Duane, a young hettie lad I  know, we have this thing, this whole routine going. We flirt outrageously for ages,  both knowing it’s going to lead absolutely no place fast. I’m sure if it were going to lead to another place,  we’d both run a freaking mile in the opposing direction!  Yes, he’s sweet, cute, well crafted, but straight and more than just a pretty face! </span></div>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I used to flirt with a boy called Ashley,  he was great at it, loved it, perhaps even better than me at it, which is saying something!  But totally completely straight!  Not a single gay bone in his body (stop making up ya own jokes!!)  and yet sometimes used to phone me up for a little bit of a flirt,  till his girlfriend got a bit jealous, even though we all knew it was a bit of harmless fun. </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Of course, there is the gay flirting,  you know  with another fellow of the non straight persuasion,  which can be interesting,  fun perhaps,  but there’s always that cloud floating high above,  and that cloud is the cloud of where the flirting is leading!   I suppose it’s like there are a couple of varieties of flirting,  innocent flirting -  the kind that has no final destination.  Or intentional flirting,  flirting with intention, perhaps flirting with malice if you will,  when you flirt with direct and clear intentions,  probably of getting in to bed with the flirtee, you know,  share some bodily fluids or such like. </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I’ve flirted with gay guys and it’s been fun for a while. But then  that cloud settles and it’s either run like Forest frigging Gump or face up to desire that’s causing a tightness in ya under-crackers and take the leap from flirting to, well another word starting with an &#8220;f&#8221; and also having an &#8220;ing&#8221; on the end and a &#8220;u&#8221; and a &#8220;c&#8221; and a &#8220;k&#8221; in the middle part.   It’s then that it either turns in to a mega session of rumpy pumpy, or red faces, embarrassment and the parting of company to retreat back to the rock under which is called home.  Either way,  you&#8217;re left open, exposed and sore! </span></div>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">But if you&#8217;re flirting with the likes of Stefano, it may be worth a little soreness!</span></div>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.bestgayblogs.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/miami_boyz-young_latin_stefano_5_19601_8-1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-13360" title="miami_boyz-young_latin_stefano_5_19601_8-1" src="http://www.bestgayblogs.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/miami_boyz-young_latin_stefano_5_19601_8-1.jpg" alt="" width="420" height="498" /></a><br />
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Oh, and if I’ve flirted with you, consider yaself special! I don’t do it with just anyone you know,  you have to be pretty darn special for me to flirt with you!  Yes, you’re included in that Duane, Ant, Ricky, BB, Shaun and you!</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Oh I almost forgot,  thanks for the birthday messages folks, very kind of you, really it is, and yes, I&#8217;m OK. I know one or two were worried about my mental state, hitting this 41st year of being an earthling, but I’m cool with it. Yes, of course I had misgivings about it before the event actually came around.  You see, 41  is one of those odd ages. I mean, for crying out loud, I can’t say I’m 40 anymore. Nope! I’m not 40, I am now over 40!  I am in my 40&#8242;s! Eiiks! And, yes, we all know in gay years 41 is pretty much like 81, or gay-death as one lil teenage queen said to me last week, before I left him, laying there in the ground!   But, no. Surprisingly enough I don’t give a pickled bollock about it. It’s fine with me, yes. It’s taken a wee while hasn’t it? OK, yes it’s taken a lot of time, a huge chunk of soul searching, a bit of a crying, a tad &#8216;woe is me’ sobs along with dramatic hand wringing, and now finally, yes at frigging last, little Jase is accepting of this thing called  age.  Yes, I am accepting of hitting the big 4 &#8211; 0 that I have become.  But, not only that, I am now content with being  40!  You may think I’m passed it, gone to seed, over the hill,  heading towards gods waiting room, or something equally insulting and agist, but I don’t give a random flying fuck anymore.  I’m me,  I’m happy,  I’m content and what’s more,  even if I am  all those derogatory things, I can still pull guys half my age without even trying! </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Right,  that’s ya lot,  I’m heading into the birthday spirit, you can come along if you want to and you can keep up with the pace! </span></div>
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">But hey, there&#8217;s some pretty hot guys in their 40&#8242;s!  Here&#8217;s a prime example!</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">So now, what about you?  Are you good with being 40 (that is if you&#8217;ve reached it)?  And about the flirting part&#8230;Do you flirt with straight boys too?<br />
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		<title>The True Mark Of Friendship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 15:17:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Shaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jason Shaw, the kooky eccentric English guy is back with more true life confessions from his Seafront Diaries.  This time, since Sunday August 1st was &#8220;Friendship Day&#8221;, exploring the true mark of friendship?? Question for you &#8211;  Is there a limit to friendship?   Certain boundaries that you just don’t cross?  How close can close [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="text-align: left;">Jason Shaw, the kooky eccentric English guy is back with more true life confessions from his <a title="Jase goes forth" href="http://seafrontdiary.com/" target="_blank">Seafront Diaries</a>.  This time, since Sunday August 1st was &#8220;Friendship Day&#8221;, exploring the true mark of friendship??<span id="more-13352"></span></div>
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Question for you &#8211;  Is there a limit to friendship?   Certain boundaries that you just don’t cross?  How close can close friends be?    I like to consider myself as a good friend to have,  in fact I firmly believe that friends are your ‘chosen’ family.   I’d like to say I’d do anything for my friends,  but  you know,   last week,  I had to balk at a recent request from a friend of mine. </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Now,  this friend, who shall remain nameless, Simon, has been  a tad free with his fancies,   a little bit loose with his virtue,  a little less choosy than perhaps he might have been,   a bit well,  actually there is no polite skirting around the issue that for the last few months he’s been a bit of a tart!</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">He split up with his long term boyf at the start of March time and since then he’s been on a bit of a mission, a mission to make up for the last six years of monogamy and well,  live it up a bit.  And when I say live it up a bit, what I am really grasping for is a euphemism for sleeping around! </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"> Anyway, I got a text from him the other night,  rather concerned, all anxious about something or other but not giving much detail away, something about this or that and a chap called Rob, a bang of spanners, a fin and radom!   It was late at night,  I was at work and I couldn’t really understand what he was going on about,  I’m not really up on all that abbreviated text talk.    Anyway,  the next morning when I got home,  we spoke on messenger, and it all became clear, the long and short of it was,  Simon thought he’d picked up a sexually transmitted infection, the silly boy and was a tad concerned about it.  As well he might, I thought, but hey, I kept that thought to myself.   But,  hold on one cotton picking second here,  don’t rush on,  for here is  where the whole friendship limit and boundaries kinda thing comes in to play.  Simon,  wanted my advice,  not about what colour tie goes with a plaid shirt,  nor how to make the perfect peach cobbler,  things that as a friend I’m all too willing to impart.   But,  oh no,   Simon wanted my advice on what was going on downstairs in his trouser department!   The cheeky fella was asking for a second opinion kind of thing. </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">OK,  so yes, I’ve had some experience of STI’s and the like when I was a volunteer advisor,  but that was more than a few years ago and face to face advice and definitely no examinations!   But, hey, as I say,  I like to consider myself as a good friend, and before you could say “Mines a pint of your finest best bitter please landlord and a packet of the most scrumptious fried potato slices&#8221;  Si had dropped his kegs and was bending right over showing me his lower portions  where the sun most defiantly doesn’t shine!  Yes, I got a right eye full, a sight that I&#8217;m not gonna forget in a hurry &#8211;  worse luck! </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I had to confirm that  I believed he had a rather savage dose of what we used to call rice crispy arse back in the day,  otherwise known as Condyloma acuminata, which in every day talk is commonly known as genital warts!    Oh the shame and embarrassment, he was thankful  for my webcam diagnosis and hurried off to get an appointment at the local GUM clinic up Kemp Town, and as for me, well lets just say it’s put me off chocolate rice crispy cakes for a good long while!</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Oh well,  more soon,  next time read about proposals, flirting and Florida dreamin!</span></div>
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		<title>Best If Used On or Before?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jun 2010 16:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a little puzzled, which yes I grant you , is not an unusual state of mind, any regular here at Best Gay Blogs,  or over at The Seafront Diaries, will tell you I&#8217;m often that way!   In fact as life zips by the more and more puzzled I become!  It&#8217;s true,  life is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a little puzzled,  which yes  I grant you ,  is not an unusual state of mind, any regular here at Best Gay Blogs,  or over at The Seafront Diaries, will tell you I&#8217;m often that way!   In fact  as life zips by  the more and more puzzled I become!  It&#8217;s true,  life is mucking fuddling to say the very least!</p>
<p>But,  right now,  I&#8217;m pondering this &#8211;  Do you think humans have a &#8216;Best Before&#8217; date?  You know like most food items have.   Or perhaps it&#8217;s a more formal,  more  strict Use By date?  After which it&#8217;s no longer safe to consume,  it&#8217;s gone off,  gone bad, become inedible and unusable.</p>
<p>I was pondering this yesterday during my day job,  by which I really  mean in the early hours of this morning  and during my night job.  For as regular readers will know, I am a creature of darkness,  in that,  I work nights,    So really, the night job is the so called &#8216;proper&#8217; job that pays the bills and the writing is the day and  &#8216;fun&#8217; job that pays peanuts, buts gives most enjoyment.</p>
<p>But, I&#8217;m beginning to stray from the point,  what I mean, though  seriously,   do us human beings have such things,    I mean certain dates where things are good,  delightful and juicy and then a date of a period  when they are no longer the sweet tasty product they once were,  but still perfectly edible,  before the inevitable toss out date when everything goes bad?   Are we like a nice fresh banana, or a squeezed out old satsuma sitting at the bottom of the bowl?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a wonder?  Are we like food?   I mean, I&#8217;m a great one of for checking the date on my food stuffs,   I&#8217;ll even calculate my weekly menu based on what days my food goes  passed it&#8217;s best before and before it&#8217;s use by&#8217;s.    I stick to them,  usually religiously,  the obvious exceptions would be cheesecake and well cake in general, which can routinely be used well after it&#8217;s best before date,  though usually how anyone can leave cake that long is beyond my reasonable understanding.  Cake,  like wine,  has no left overs and is to be consumed within a day of purchase,  that&#8217;s the law,  Jason&#8217;s law!  (Which may obviously directly contribute to why I&#8217;m the size I am!)</p>
<p>As I say, I was sitting at work,  when I mentioned I felt a little bit of a tightness in the chest,  a small ache or pain on the left side.  I informed the gang and had a laugh and giggle about it,   me  joking that I was having a heart attack.  I know I wasn&#8217;t,  and yes,  one shouldn&#8217;t joke about such things,  and to be honest,  it was probably a pulled muscle,  or  as D suggested wind or indigestion or other such silly frailty,  which I am known to have.    But,  one of the girls, the lovely K,  did look sternly at me and told me that, that I really should have gotten myself up to the hospital to be checked out,  that a man,  my age,  is ripe for such things,  it&#8217;s about this time that the onslaught of dilapidation should start!</p>
<p>You know what though,  as harsh as her words may sound,  although she said them with jest , care, and consideration,   she is right, she&#8217;s bloody well right!   I am now older,    I am now heading to that age,  that period of life,  when things do go wrong, bits drop off, shrivel up,  stop working and give out.    I am, me thinks,  perhaps  reaching that  Best Before date!</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re young,  things like heart attacks,  strokes,  dementia,  Alzheimer&#8217;s seem so far off,  they happen to old people mostly,  people in their middle age,  which is years and years away.   You always think you&#8217;re invincible, that such things are never going to happen.  Then you get older,  things start aching for no reason,   things start going wrong,  hair starts to turn grey,  eyesight fades,  memory develops holes, jean&#8217;s shrink without  being washed,  it takes longer to recover from a night out &#8211;  longer than the night out itself!</p>
<p>So perhaps,  we do,  have a best before date, which,  I think I&#8217;ve possibly hit, ,  but hey my old china, I&#8217;m a long way off my Use By date.   So,  whilst I may not be the youngest, juiciest  fruit on the shelf,  I&#8217;ve still got plenty of substance left to offer,  I may be a little more bitter and sharper than I once was,  but hey some people like that, right?  but I&#8217;ve still got a great taste!  Snap it up before the Use By date!</p>
<p>Jason blogs his heart out on <a title="Jase Blogs It" href="http://seafrontdiary.com" target="_blank">The Seafront Diaries</a> on an almost daily basis,  you can catch him there before his UBD  arrives and he&#8217;s thrown out with the rest of the dodgy old stock in the dumpster of life!</p>
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		<title>23, Gay &amp; Mayor</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 16:41:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There was a time, not too many years ago that it was simply unheard of for an openly gay man or woman to become an elected official. But, there&#8217;s been a lot of progress made over the past couple decades and the U.K. is no exception. According to a post on Pink News: A 23-year-old [...]]]></description>
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<p>According to a post on <a href="http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2010/06/01/gay-man-becomes-britains-youngest-mayor/" target="_blank"><strong>Pink News</strong></a>:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>A 23-year-old gay man has been elected Britain&#8217;s  youngest mayor.  Ian Campbell, a Labour councillor, was elected mayor of  Retford, Nottinghamshire, last month.  He was only recently elected a  councillor for East Retford West, which he won by 15 votes.</em></p></blockquote>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 16:20:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I felt like crying this morning,  I really did, no honestly, I really really did.   I could almost feel that moisture building up in my eyes.  And,  no, I&#8217;d not splashed my CKBe in my eyes,  nor did I eye-wash with draino.  I hadn&#8217;t trapped my dangly bits on the shower door or cleaned [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I felt like crying this morning,  I really did, no honestly, I really really did.   I could almost feel that moisture building up in my eyes.  And,  no, I&#8217;d not splashed my CKBe in my eyes,  nor did I eye-wash with draino.  I hadn&#8217;t trapped my dangly bits on the shower door or cleaned my teeth with razor blades.   it was none of these things that caused my eyes to momentarily  fill with water.  It was,  my dear  dear Best Gay Blogs friends, something of a far greater magnitude,  well in my life anyway,   it was the loss of all my decent jeans! </span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I was in my bedroom when I reached for that lovely dark pair of 501&#8242;s (yes I am a Levi boy) jeans, that were on my &#8216;jeans&#8217; shelf inside my rather bulging wardrobe. Yes,  I have two shelves inside the closet for my demin pants,  my jeans and this particular pair  had not been worn for some time, but they feel good on,  usually. And,  even though I say it myself,  they look rather good on too! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;"> However,   today was different,  and not in a good way,  I guess I should have, at that time have realized, something was a miss.  I struggled a little to get them over my thighs,   but the real moment of sadness arrived when I came to do up those shiny buttons at the fly,  the first one,  the one at the bottom, perhaps that should be termed the last one and not the first,  but,  it&#8217;s the first one you do up,  or at least, the first one most people do up.  Anyway,  that one was easy,  as was the second,  the third was a problem.  Now,  I pulled and pulled and breathed in,  forced all the air out of me,  made myself as skinny as I possibly could,  so much so that I think I might have given myself piles,  but  no amount of trying was going to get that top button in and through that hole. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I sat on the bed, red in the face from my efforts to get in my jeans with a sad look  upon my face.  I hate it when you shrink a pair of favorite jeans, it&#8217;s just sad. But hey,  rather like spilled milk,  there&#8217;s not point crying over it.   So off they came and flung back into the wardrobe,  not to the shelf,  but to the bottom,  which houses a rather tragic pile of clothing items which I no longer it into for one reason or another. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I reached in and pulled a darker pair out from the storage place,  on I pulled them,  these a pair of faded 505&#8242;s,  but relatively new,  purchased the last time I was over in America. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I cursed my horrid bad luck as I struggled a for a good few moments trying to get that zipper up and the top waistband button done up.   I mean,  to shrink two pairs of jeans in two serpentine washes on two separate occasions was pretty darn bad luck. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">Ok,  so  thing&#8217;s slowly started to dawn ad I rapidly tried on another pair,  which fitted,  indeed I could do the top button up,  but only if the circulation to my lower half was cut off and I didn&#8217;t move!  But,  yes,  the realization that perhaps Jason&#8217;s laundry routine was not to blame for shrinking the jeans, but rather his love of cheesecake had in fact expanded his waistline!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I looked down at my belly, it didn&#8217;t look any bigger,  but then again,  it didn&#8217;t look exactly smaller either.  I know I put weight on when I spent three months  in Illinois,  the massive portions and no exercise saw to that,  and I know I&#8217;ve tried to knock some off with a little blast of diet like behavior here and there,  but the pounds,  well,  I guess you could say,  hung around.</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I try to be a good boy,  I try to eat a salad,  I try and opt for the healthy option, I do,  but then, as Darren Hayes would say, junk food taste so good because it&#8217;s bad for you&#8217;   I have this crazy fascination for cheesecake,  it&#8217;s a bit of a..well,  problem for me.   I find it hard to turn my nose up at a slab, slice or whole cheesecake.   I  simply love the stuff,  as my waist and rather  unappealing belly testify. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">I looked at the pile of trousers, jeans and the like in the wardrobe,  and almost let out a silent sob,   I&#8217;m 40 and I will almost certainly never get into my D&amp;G 30 inch waist jeans ever again.    I am, officially a bit of a bloater ,  with a big belly and little of no willpower.     I&#8217;m not even going to slip into those Armarni 32&#8243; slinky black boot cut&#8217;s that have only had one ware!  Life is,  as they say  not fair!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">bigger and a more healthy 30&#8243; and activily had to pretty much overeat to put on even a quarter of one pound.  But that was when I was young and pretty,   when going to the gym for two hours after work seemed like an easy let out! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">Now,  I need to only as much as sniff a cream cake,  or look at a bar of chocolate and the pounds pile on.  Never more so has the phrase &#8216;A moment on the lips,  a lifetime on the hips&#8217; been proved so accurate.  It&#8217;s the curse of the middle age man begets   the middle age spread,  it&#8217;s well,  it&#8217;s nature,  unkind yes,  but nature. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;">&#8216;No one loves a fairy when their fat and forty&#8217; a so called &#8216;friend&#8217; said on Twitter the other day,  when I told them  that I was now struggling to make it in to a 34&#8243; waist  and rather a bit more that 13 stone!   Which has prompted two things,  firstly  them being blocked on twitter and two,   Jason&#8217;s mother of all diets &#8211;  I am now,  totally 101% OFF  cheesecake,  do not,  under any circumstances let me have any,  not evening a tiny wee bit.   But obviously,  that starts tomorrow!</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';"><span style="color: #330099;"><strong><em>Jason&#8217;s award winning blog <a title="Jason's Blog" href="http://seafrontdiary.com" target="_blank">The Seafront Diaries</a> is a honest and heartfelt account of life from the Sussex coastal town of Brighton, where he travels from one mini mid life crisis to the next.   It&#8217;s a jolly good read,  a touch of madness in a sane world,  or even a touch of sanity in a mad world?  You take your pick!</em></strong></span></span></div>
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		<title>Time Flies&#8230;&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 16:27:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Shaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey hey hey,  can you blooming well believe this,  it&#8217;s June already?  I mean  really,  my Best Gay Blog friends, we are now in the month of June,  the 6th month of the year, and you know what that mean&#8217;s,  yep  half the year has almost already gone!   2010 is half over, half done, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Hey hey hey,  can you blooming well believe this,  it&#8217;s June already?  I mean  really,  my Best Gay Blog friends, we are now in the month of June,  the 6th month of the year, and you know what that mean&#8217;s,  yep  half the year has almost already gone!   2010 is half over, half done, half completed and we&#8217;re all another half year nearer the grave!   Oh I am a cheery soul today! </span></p>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Looking at the calender,  I keep wondering where all that time has gone,  I mean this ticking clock of life seems to whiz by so fast these days that I hardly have time to draw breathe and paint my toenails!  Cut the grass or lust after the sporty hot guys in the gym!    No, really,  to me,  it only seems like yesterday that I was doing Christmas shopping and wondering what was in Santa&#8217;s sack for me! </span></div>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was shocked the other day when I realized that my little niece wasn&#8217;t quite so little anymore,  nope,   unless you count 21 as little!     How on earth did that happen,  her getting to that age,  already? </span></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Can it really be true?  Firstly, look at my face,   do I look old enough to have a 21 year old niece?  OK, yeah  scrap that, I don&#8217;t need to hear the answer!  But second and most important  where did all that time go?</span></div>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I can remember holding her in my arms when she was just a little sprog of a child at maybe 2 or 3! Obviously, being a typical uncle,  I only held her in my arms until she either pooped, pee&#8217;d or cried,  when she was then handed to the nearest, more capable adult!     But, by jiggery pokery she be all growed up and a big girl now.  No longer is she the the snotty kid that  likes eating spaghetti hoops with her fingers, that somehow managed to tip a tin of paint all over the lounge room carpet.  She&#8217;s a god damn freaking woman now!  So really, where has all that time gone?</span></div>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Is it the curse of getting older, that time rapidly vanishes,  that suddenly,  time moves at rocket speed!     I mean  I can remember being young,  being at school and thinking the summer holidays were gonna last forever.   Back then 6 weeks (the standard UK school summer vacation) seemed like and eternity,  indeed, it was  a life time.  Battles raged, wars won and lost, friends made, lost and made again in such time,  and all that was before tea!  A Sixty second run,  meant you&#8217;d be sixty seconds worth off distance away back then,  now, after sixty seconds,  you&#8217;re still getting to your feet!</span></div>
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<div style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I guess,  time was all we had back then, honestly,  we had so much more of it, and by god it traveled by in such a slow way.  Many many times during a maths class did I think the hands of that clock up on the wall were in fact going backwards and by some mean cruel turn of fate,  I was destined to spend the rest of my life in  Mr Woodfin&#8217;s applied calculus class! Oh the purgatory. </span></div>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_fbh-eMUyKZc/S_J9Os1PhGI/AAAAAAAADKQ/MsG-5DjZCCk/s1600/portrait-calvin.png"><span style="color: black;"><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_fbh-eMUyKZc/S_J9Os1PhGI/AAAAAAAADKQ/MsG-5DjZCCk/s320/portrait-calvin.png" border="0" alt="" width="273" height="320" /></span></a><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">But,  then again,  on a more positive note,  I used to marvel at the fact that  during my one hour lunch time,  I could queue up for what seemed like the whole hour,  to get lunch in the dining hall, find at least, a semi empty table that didn&#8217;t have second year vomit or first year blood on it.   Sit and  eat lunch whilst all the time  trying to dodge someone else&#8217;s incoming sausage, or low flying potatoes, in an invariable food fight that always seemed to be going on somewhere in the hall!    Then after food was consumed, empty plates scraped or licked depending on the dish, and piled up high by the dinner ladies,  it was time to go outside for some fresh air.   I&#8217;d  suck on the straw of my little apple juice carton (back then there were a novelty!)  as I walked round the playground, not to join friends, or class or house mates,  but in order to get to the back, near the fence,  so I could sneak off behind the netball courts.  Once there,  out of sight of the main buildings,   I&#8217;d either cadge a smoke off one of the hard lads from the council estate that went to mu school.  Or  I&#8217;d spark up one of my own that I&#8217;d pilfered from my mother than morning, without her noticing of course.     I&#8217;d also have time to have a piss,  avoiding the blue/brown goldfish, the fights, the football games and the dirty first years. On the way, I&#8217;d  eat an apple,  bung the core at an unsuspecting first or second year back,  then suck a couple of extra strong&#8217;s,  so my breathe didn&#8217;t stink of ciggies and still arrive at the classroom early for the post lunch hell that was afternoon lessons! </span></div>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was young,  and day&#8217;s  well they  seemed like weeks,  and those weeks,  they in turn felt like months and months&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..well you get the picture, time was eternal back then,  everything happened so very slowly,  or at the very least, to my young mind everything took forever!</span></div>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">But,  did it?  Did it really?   Was my sixty second head start not a minute then as it would be now?   Could my hour of fun then,  still be the same sixty minutes of time now?    Is time a relative concept, the move you have of it,  the slower it seems to pass?  As we get older,  we have,   to be perfectly blunt,  less of it,  we are heading towards the final curtain,  so  time is more precious to us and passes by in the blink of an eye?    And we sound like those grumpy old farts,  that used to reminisce about &#8216;the good old days&#8217;, with our parents.  How old they sounded, what silly notions they seemed to have when they said things like &#8216;School days are the best days of your life&#8217;  and &#8216;Where has all the time gone?&#8217;  and &#8216;oh time flies&#8217;        Back then  school was mostly like one long prison sentence in hell, the time hadn&#8217;t gone anywhere,  and the only way time is gonna fly is if you throw the frigging clock out the window! </span></div>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was going to write  something else here on Best Gay Blogs,  but,  would you look at that,  I&#8217;ve run out of time!</span></div>
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		<title>You&#8217;re Out of Time &#8211; Almost!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 17:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Shaw</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey,  time is almost up! It was someone very clever,  or someone with a super watch that once said &#8216;time waits for no man&#8217;, and they weren&#8217;t telling lies!  Time didn&#8217;t stop last weekend, and yep,  it just keeps on tocking and a ticking by. Which mean&#8217;s that you are almost out of time to [...]]]></description>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It was someone very clever,  or someone with a super watch that once said &#8216;time waits for no man&#8217;, and they weren&#8217;t telling lies!  Time didn&#8217;t stop last weekend, and yep,  it just keeps on tocking and a ticking by.</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Which mean&#8217;s that you are almost out of time to enter<a title="Jase" href="http://seafrontdiary.com" target="_blank"> Jason Shaw&#8217;s</a> fan pic contest.    It comes to an end at midnight on 20th May (UK time),  so all fan pic entries  have to be in by then if you want to stand a chance of wining the $150 prize.</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So,  what ya waiting for,  get snapping those pictures and email them in to Jason at  fans@seafrontdiary.com</span></div>
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<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Tahoma;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">© 2010 Copyright Jason Shaw</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;">Show some love &#8211;   with for Jason&#8217;s daily blog  <a title="jase" href="http://seafrontdiary.com" target="_blank">The Seafront Diaries</a>,  or here,  on Best Gay Blogs,  or both if you wish and you&#8217;ll be entered into the contest.</span></p>
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<div>You can be fully clothed or pretty much unclothed,  the choice is yours,  just hold a sign showing your appreciation of Best Gay Blogs  or The Seafront Diaries and you&#8217;ll be entered into the contest &#8211;  email  fans@seafrontdiary.com</div>
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